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How Your Role Changes As A 4. GIVING TO YOUR MARRIED CHILDREN - How Your LAST
HOW, WHEN, AND WHAT
Dina teaches you how to establish policies
Parent After You Marry Them Off for what you can give within your financial CHANCE!
resources
and
physical
capabilities.
This enables you to give freely without Role Changes Program begins
Generations in Harmony is a revolutionary new course resentment while upholding your truth and this week!
for women, led by Dina Friedman. ensuring fairness between couples.
The topic? Creating and maintaining a harmonious relationship “Before this program, saying no was a
with your married children. challenge, even when necessary. Now, As A Parent
when I say yes, it's wholehearted, and if I
need to decline, I do so without harming
our relationship. I recently had to tell my
What was the inspiration behind As a child speaking: From the perspective son that we couldn't include his family in
creating a program like this? of a young married, I must admit that prior our vacation plans. Thanks to effective After You
When I married off my first child 11 years to taking this course, I often harbored communication, it went smoothly and
ago, I vividly remember feeling apprehensive judgment towards my parents and in-laws. didn't harm our relationship.”
and uncertain. My top priority was to I resented them for not providing what I 5. NAVIGATING RUPTURES, REPAIRS,
maintain a loving relationship with both needed. I now recognize that my parents AND RED FLAGS
my child and my new child-in-law, but I and in-laws are just human and are limited. Ruptures are a natural part of close Marry Them Off
lacked the knowledge and confidence to I let go of my unrealistic expectation of relationships. This program empowers you
navigate this new chapter successfully. I had them being the solution to my problems- to recognize when repair is possible and
witnessed many instances where married and was rewarded with a newfound level how to successfully mend the relationship.
children were disturbed by their parents of love and connection! It also helps you identify red flag situations,
meddling and it was causing harm, and I 2. ESSENTIAL CONVERSATIONS offering resources for addressing them
was determined to avoid that outcome. BEFORE MARRIAGE within marriage or within the parent-child Experience Generations in Harmony,
The challenge was distinguishing between relationship. led by the legendary Dina Friedman.
what was considered mixing in and genuine The program covers critical conversations “I joined this program to improve my
helpfulness. Was offering assistance to have with your child, to set them up for relationship with my married child. Learn to create and maintain loving,
perceived as interference, or was it seen as success after marriage. These discussions It proved invaluable as I navigated a
support? Was saying “no” when I genuinely ensure that your child is well-prepared for complicated situation that strained our healthy relationships with your
couldn't help considered rejection or an any situation, without the constant need family bonds. The program provided clarity married children.
acknowledgment of my current limitations? for parental intervention. Topics include regarding what I could change and what I
As a life coach, I've encountered cases relationship guidance, gender roles, financial had to accept, and how to find inner peace This program is tailored for parents
where both parents and married children matters, pregnancy, and intimacy. and serenity even in situations beyond my Generations
were upset with each other, yet neither side “As a parent, I recently guided my son control.”
knew how to resolve the issues. It became before his marriage using the invaluable and young marrieds, who are determined in Harmony
evident to me that there was a real need advice on this program. It enabled me to Who would benefit most to uphold meaningful connections.
for a step-by-step guide to help parents and have meaningful conversations with him from this course? Maintaining healthy
married children comprehend the changes before his wedding and then I could let This course is designed for mothers Dina teaches you the facts of what parent-child relationships
that occur when a child leaves home for him lead his own life without my constant marrying off their children who are invested changes when a child leaves home for beyond the chuppah
marriage. They needed insights into the involvement. in the successful transition of the couple into Designed
common problems both sides encounter This transition was challenging for me marriage and beyond. It’s also essential for marriage, the typical challenges both marrieds
and reliable solutions. What if parents and emotionally with my other married young married women who want to maintain sides deal with, and dependable solutions.
children had the knowledge to prevent children, but this time I was equipped with open and harmonious relationships with for mothers + young
many of these problems from arising in the tools to navigate it successfully. I now their parents and in-laws while nurturing
the first place? This is a program I wished enjoy newfound calm and peace.” their own healthy marital relationship.
I had access to, both for myself and for my
children. 3. UNDERSTANDING BOUNDARIES AND What can participants expect to gain
IMPROVING COMMUNICATION from completing the course?
What are the Learn to distinguish which issues belong
topics covered? to the parent and which to the child, along Generations in Harmony equips both
parents and young marrieds with invaluable
1. PARENT-CHILD DYNAMIC SHIFT with guidelines for when it's appropriate to information and tools to create harmonious
Understand your new role as a parent intervene and when not to. Discover effective bonds within the family.
of married children and discover how to ways to communicate these boundaries and
support your child's journey into complete maintain authenticity in your interactions JOIN THIS Register for our
independence. with your children. FREE INTRODUCTORY CLASS
“This program has been transformative “I used to spoil my newly-married TRANSFORMATIVE Special discount for all attendees
for me, lifting the emotional weight children, but this generosity led to a PROGRAM!
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that accompanied my relationship sense of entitlement and resentment. To sign up and for more information, Monday, Oct. 16 at 10:30 AM EST
with my married children. It provided a From the program, I learned to identify please visit dinafriedmanacademy.com/
comprehensive guide to navigating these my boundaries and communicate them generations or call 718.285.3970. Program begins Wednesday Oct. 25
dynamic shifts, freeing me from the burden effectively. Now, every gesture towards
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responding in kind! open and loving relationship.” on October 25th.
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*Stories are true accounts of participants of the program.
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