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                           Inspirations                    challenge: the   182
                  and Real-Life                            Concerning our   Volume
                                                            generation’s
                                                           battle against
                                                             technology





                                 I don’t  want   laughing uproariously.
                                to  introduce  “You’ve got to see this, Chaim!” he called out, turning
             A Magnetic         myself  by  around the screen so we could both see.
                                name,  but  you   It was some silly practical joke played out live on the
                   Force        can call Moshe.  screen and I made a face to show Chaim exactly what I
                                 I’m a young   thought of his neighbor, the device, and the absolute
                                bachur, all of 17   foolishness he was dabbling in.
                                years  old,  but  I   But  let  me  tell you  something,  dear  readers.
                                feel like I’ve   Technology is strong. Stronger than an impressionable
         lived a long, long time. I’ve already traveled very far   young boy who doesn’t really want to look but is too
         before coming back home.           curious to turn away. It didn’t take long. The Yetzer
          I’ve never left home, in the physical sense. I learn in a   Hara is mighty efficient, when he wants to be.
         local  yeshivah and the  furthest  I’ve  ever gone  is  to   I was hooked. This generous, helpful neighbor gave
         summer camp. But in every other sense of the word, I   me one of his ‘old’ devices that he didn’t need anymore.
         was away from home.                He even supplied me with clips and videos to watch.
          Allow me to explain. About two years ago, a friend of   “Nothing bad,” he assured me. “Everything is kosher.”
         mine told me about his neighbor who has access to   He was right. Everything he gave me was kosher,
         every device and gadget on the market.  more or less.
          “Who is he?” I wondered, slightly aghast that a boy   But he was so, so wrong. Within a few weeks, I didn’t
         our age has such wide-open vistas.  recognize myself. I was like an addict, desperate to get
          “He’s not that  different from you and me,” Chaim   another fix. I hid the devices and SD cards in the most
         laughed. “He learns in a good yeshivah, follows the   original hiding places, so that my parents wouldn’t find
         rules, does everything right – and also enjoys the   out. Hours upon hours were wasted on foolishness, and
         pleasures of technology.”          my mind was held captive by those blinking images.
          I was horrified, but Chaim merely laughed at my   Until that fateful – and blessed – day when my device
         reaction.                          was discovered. I’ll never forget my mother’s tears and
          “Come on, Moshe, don’t overdo it,” he mocked. “My   my father’s disappointment. I felt smaller than I’d ever
         neighbor’s father simply has a different policy than our   felt before – but in a sense, I was glad.
         parents.  He  believes  that  if  kids  are  introduced  to   I was glad for the chance to start again. It was hard,
         technology at a young age, they’ll learn to deal with it   and it’s still quite difficult, but with my parents’ support
         responsibly. It’s not like he gives them anything with   I’m heading in the right direction.
         Internet access…”                   I’m begging you, dear readers! Don’t underestimate
          Chaim’s attitude rubbed off on me. When I visited his   the power of technology.  Even if it’s kosher and
         house several days later, I wasn’t surprised to see this   filtered, it can still take over your mind and heart, and
         neighbor sitting in Chaim’s room like an old friend. He   turn you into a person you would never want to be.
         had  some kind of device in his hands, and he was   Take it from me. I learned the hard way.



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