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                           Inspirations                    challenge: the
                  and Real-Life                            Concerning our   Volume
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                                   A menahel   and I knew that Shloimy had reconsidered.
                                  r ecen t l y   “Uh…I – I – about the form,” Shloimy stuttered. “The
            Father and Son        shared a poi-  form we have to sign?”
                                  gnant anec-  His voice jerked upward in a question mark and I
                                  dote.  After  wondered which part of this simple procedure he was
                                  working in   finding  so  unnerving.  I  smiled,  the  most  reassuring
                                  the chinuch   smile I could muster, but Shloimy couldn’t bring himself
        field for several decades, nothing takes him by surprise   to continue.
        - but this particular incident touched him deeply:  “I just – I mean, forget it,” he whispered. “It’s nothing.”
                                             Mere moments later, when I was sitting in the tiny
          Our yeshivah is geared for boys between the ages of   closet we call an office, the secretary put through a tele-
        14 and 16, and Shloimy had just about hit his 14th birth-  phone call to my extension.
        day.                                 “Is this the menahel?” the caller asked.
          He was such an earnest young boy, with clear, blue   “Speaking.”
        eyes and a ready smile. In those hectic days at the start   “My son called last night,” the man said quickly, al-
        of the zman, I didn’t exchange a word with him but his   most desperately. “Shloimy. You probably don’t know
        sweet personality made an immediate impression.  the boys by name yet, but he’s a good boy. A gift from
          “Did you distribute the technology forms yet?” I asked   Hashem.”
        the mashgiach one morning. “I like to get that done   The man swallowed audibly. I wondered what secrets
        sometime in the first week.”       lurked behind the sweet, bashful smile of his young son.
          “Yes, the forms were given out yesterday,” he replied,   “He called me, crying,” the father continued, his voice
        waving a sheaf of papers to prove it. “Most of the boys   cracking ever so slightly. “He said that he wants to sign
        returned them already. I’m just waiting for the last few.”  a form, committing himself not to look at a Smartphone
          Our students pledge to completely avoid Smartphones   all year. But he’s afraid that it will be a lie.”
        and we are proud of their commitment. The forms are   “A lie?” I repeated, completely bewildered.
        just a formality since the boys know our stance on the   “He told me, ‘Totty, I’m afraid that when I come home
        technology issue and they commit to it before enroll-  I’ll look at your phone by mistake. Maybe I’ll sneak a
        ment.                              quick peek. How can I sign this form?’ That’s what Shlo-
          Shloimy seemed perturbed. I noticed it immediately.   imy asked me last night. He was crying, begging for the
        There was something so good and golden about this new   chance to keep himself pure.”
        student, causing his distress to stand out and catch my   There was silence on the other end of the line. Just
        attention.                         when I thought he had hung up, the man said, “So I just
          “Shloimy, is everything alright?” I asked him during   wanted to know if you can give Shloimy a message. Tell
        lunchtime. “Is there something you want to discuss?”  him that…that he – he can sign the form with a clear con-
          He blushed to the roots of his blond hair and shook his   science. It won’t be a lie. Tell Shloimy that I threw out
        head. Moments later, I heard soft footsteps behind me   my Smartphone last night.”


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