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                         Inspirations                     challenge: the
                and Real-Life                             Concerning our   Volume
                                                           generation’s
                                                          battle against
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                                 My sto-   “When Hashem blesses us with a child, I
                                ry might  will throw out my Smartphone,” my wife
         Our Miracle Child      read a lit-  once said, layers of pain underscoring each
                                tle like a  word.
                                fairytale;   She meant it. She really did.
                                like   a   I was afraid that the decision would lose
      miracle story that’s hard to believe. Some-  its power if we didn’t make it concrete.
      times, when I hold my precious little baby   “Write it down,” I urged my wife. “Write
      boy, I also find it hard to believe the chain   down  your kabbalah. Let’s put  this down
      of events.                          on paper. It will strengthen our decision to
       But let’s start from the beginning.  get rid of the device when we are blessed
       When I got married several years ago, I   with a child.”
      had my life planned out. I knew that very   Rochel wrote it down. It was just a few
      soon our home would be filled with the   words, a future decision, but they were so
      beautiful sounds of life – children crying,
      laughing, and growing up together. I pic-  unbelievably powerful.
      tured myself as the ideal Totty, taking a   Less than one year later, I became a Totty.
      bunch of little boys to shul every Shabbos.  A beautiful little neshama’la crowned us as
       Nothing prepared me for those first few   parents. And the ironic twist in the story is
      years of deep, dark silence.        that the Smartphone landed in the garbage
       My wife had a Smartphone, but it was so   can way before our little prince was born.
      basic and simple that it could basically be   There was a big wave of hisorerus in our
      called a ‘kosher Smartphone’. She didn’t use   community, with the rabbanim urging us
      it for any social media, there was no   to get rid of our ‘Smart’  devices…since
      Whatsapp on it, and it wasn’t even used for   they take the ‘art’ out of ‘Smart’ and leave
      shopping. My wife used her device just for  their owners grappling for a sense of bal-
      texting, for phone calls, and for some basic  ance.
      apps like banking and other conveniences.  Rochie got rid of her device, and a few
       We knew that despite its simplicity, a  weeks later we listened to the lusty cries of
      Smartphone is not the device of choice in a  our newborn miracle.
      frum home. We discussed it.          Coincidence? I don’t think so!



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